Monday, July 6, 2009

So Far, 40 Sucks!

As Tam says I keep it real, so I'm just keepin' it real...thus far 40 sucks! I've been having a miserable month so I needed to take an unexpected break from the blog world for a little while. Since life seems to keep getting the best of me I've decided what the hell, I might as well start blogging again--it's a legal and inexpensive diversion albeit time killer.

The only thing I will share about the past few weeks is Mr. Wonderful is history. I was surprised and heartbroken because it was perfect, but apparently only on my end or in my mind. He told me last week that he was looking for someone like Erykah Badu. WTF? Erykah Badu? In the words of one of my friends...I guess he wants a weirdo with 3 baby daddies. Sighhhhhh.

Good Bye! Good Luck finding your Erykah.


  1. I'm sorry you're having a lousy time but I must say your comments about Erykah are hilarious :-)
    Glad you're blogging.

  2. Sigh. That sucks.
    But maybe finding out now that he's off the wall is better than finding out a year from now.
    Still, sucks.

  3. So sorry about Mr. Not So Wonderful. Erykah Badu huh, all I can say is Hmmmmm? It will get better!

  4. LOL!

    Erykah Badu has THREE baby daddies. Too funny!

    Well, tell that man it was "his lost", not yours.


  5. Oh my man! Erykah???

    I was wondering where you were an almost left a comment to tap you on your virtual shoulder.

    Tami, you need your baby girl in your arms.

  6. Are you fugging kidding me?? He is a LOSER and he needs to get his head out of his a@@!!

    Your 40th year is going to end on with the highlight of motherhood. Keep that in mind.

  7. Tami, loving your for that guy...onward and upward girl! Sounds like a loser...

  8. Erykah Badu huh??? Is he a smoker???? Hell, Erykah don't even want an Erykah Badu---that's all for record sells! I guess he better what...."call Tyrone"...Anyway, glad you're back to blogging.

  9. Hmmm... now that the number has officially clicked over to 4-0, the attitude will arrive shortly.

    When it does, the next time some dumb*** is babbling on about Erykah Badu, you'll look up at him and ask, "You still here?"

  10. AHHHH! I love you guys! Thanks for the support. I should have posted earlier you all would have probably saved me some heartache.

    Phyllis I'm feeling the's coming and I love the "you still here".

    Haze and Nancy I do just need my baby home!!! You know I can't take that crazy process anymore. I'm having a big party for that one...that's a bigger celebration than 40.

    And everyone, thanks for coming back after my hiatus!

  11. Although it may not feel like it, I agree with the other person who said it's better to find out now rather than later.
    You will find someone who wants Tam and only Tam. Personally for him to say that to you, he sounds like a loser.

  12. He's clearly got issues!! Next! Let's hang out this week.. and remember our pact!

  13. Tell him to call Tyrone :)

  14. Tami - I am sorry things didn't work out with Mr. W - guess that W is for WRONG! I'm glad you are back to blogging. I really like reading your posts. Things are going very well with the new baby. Wait till you get your baby girl - your whole world turns upside down - for the best! LOVE HER! ali

  15. BTW - LOVE the Tyrone comment! :) HAHA

  16. Well, I am sorry to hear things did not work out but I finally got around to mentioning you to the gentleman I told you about a few months ago.

    He is 44, lives in Brooklyn and has a wonderful 9 year old son from a previous relationship. Let me know if you want to know more.


  17. Dawn-

    You should know by now I'm always game to meet someone new. :-)

  18. Hey Tami,

    I promise you that 40 IS a great year. Give it time. I'll be telling you, I told you so!" As others have mentioned, I can't wait for you to hold that sweet baby of yours! This is your year girl!