Now that you know I:
- am not really touchy feely (unless you are my man and that doesn't apply to this post)
- don’t have very soft feelings
- have a tendency to make unpopular choices
And stick and stones…words don’t bother me that much. I have another one for you. How do you feel about the term "COUGAR"?
That term that supposedly defines a woman over 40 pursuing/dating a younger man younger, seemingly making him her prey. Ok, this word bugs me. I don’t like it. It makes the hair stand up on my neck. Why, if I date someone a little younger, is he my prey? Why would it seem as if the woman is taking advantage of the situation? Trust, he is gaining also. He is a big boy. The only thing we say to men in that situation is…nothing! We give them a pat on the back! A high five! However, for women we have a whole new category…cougar. Arghhhh!
What do you think?